ALETERNATIVE LIFESTYLES: THE SHARK HAS BEEN JUMPED!
- jgl358
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I deal with multiple thousands of individuals and their transactions personally every year. Every year, year over year for the last 33 years. And I have learned several very simple but key philosophies in dealing with people of all shapes, colors and kinds successfully.
1: Understand the difference between when you are being Subjective (personal / emotional) and when you need to be Objective (taking care of business and solving problems).
2: Be genuine.
3: Create and foster mutual respect.
In business if and when you master these three simple personal philosophies of operation you can honestly sell anything and or deal with most anyone successfully. And when you fully embrace and allow this philosophy to bleed over fully into your personal life you will live your life at peace with yourself and most others. Why? Because you will understand better what motivates and drives most people to act in the way that they act, you will see yourself in others.
When you better recognize yourself in others you tend to be more understanding, compassionate and patient. Think about your own natural built-in familial, cultural and societal biases, racism and aversion to others who are different that you come preprogrammed with. No apologies. No apologies but you can choose to act differently related to your natural preprogrammed self.
How do you in real terms deal with your natural built in familial, cultural and societal biases, racism and aversions? Through applying D.E.I. policies? No. Through the application of "social justice"? No. Justice and everything else reasonable is founded in Objectivity, "social justice" as well as D.E.I. policies are based in Subjectivity. Subjectively structured logic or justice is by nature authoritarian.
How do you fight racism and your natural aversion to those who are different or choose an alternative lifestyle to make things generally better? You do not fight real or perceived biases, racism and aversions to others who are differently oriented, colored or thinking by applying more biases, racism and aversions to the problem.
Do the ends ever justify the means? No, and to seriously propose such a solution to those issues is to in fact embrace bias, racism, and aversions to others. You are in fact teaching racism and hatred to solve the problem. You cannot force anyone to like, love or tolerate others. But you can teach mutual respect.
The only true answer to fighting bias, racism and aversion to others is by fostering and teaching mutual respect and allowing people to live how they choose to live without mandated by government or media dictated behaviors.
The starting point? Let's start with an absolute statement:
EVERY HUMAN BEING IS BAISED, RACIST OR HAS AN AVERSION TO OTHERS WHO ARE NOT LIKE THEM, ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. That is just a fact of life.
And to be sure I do not love or like everyone who I interact with, I come with my own preconceived notions, Subjective judgments and biases about others. And I have no apologies. But I choose to Objectively control those preconceived and honestly sometimes valid in my opinion biases. Why do stereotypes exist? Because there is usually some truth to them.
Teach Objective mutual respect no matter the look, skin color, religious affiliation, sexual orientation or chosen presentation of a person. Be or live the way that you choose. But NEVER mandate through government, bureaucracy or media agenda how individuals must choose to live, love or think.
All of the above being established and I will assume agreed to, I read a piece in the Daily Mail today that I thought went too far in the attempt by what appears to be the "progressive" agenda ongoing within politics and within media that seeks to reset what in our American society and culture MUST be accepted. No matter how outrageous, outer limits, edgy, dangerous, unreasonable, unreal and unconnected to the real world the proposition.
The next attempt by the political and media agenda to normalize what most see as being abnormal and just harmful and weird? Chris from California explains.
Is this "Auto Sexual" classification of people in the media the next in line human outer limits condition of existence to be normalized, validated and forced by government and the "progressive" media agenda to be accepted and embraced? This IMO is but one more attempt to justify the incremental undermining and destruction of Western civilization to be replaced by what? Nothing!
Every human being as an INDIVIDUAL deserves a full measure of respect assuming that they are also respectful. Even if they are different in race, religion, culture, orientation or presentation than the MAJORITY.
There are however lines of reason that must be drawn and when those lines of reason are blurred by political agendas portrayed in media as some form of "new" normality then reasonable people must say no, no thank you. You are not interested in fostering MUTUAL RESPECT you are endeavoring essentially through force your perspective that many believe is injurious and dangerous in many instances on others, their families and their country.
You have chosen to abandon all three elements of the fostering mutual respect philosophy and reason:
2. You seek to be genuinely authoritarian by attempting to normalize your fringe different orientation related to the norm. And
3. You have in fact created fear and distrust related to your fringe differences and your attempt at normalizing it in the zeitgeist subconscious of the culture and society.
And at that point by your choice, you and your ever fringier agenda, you have "Jumped the Shark". (What Does Jump The Shark Mean? - Meaning, Uses and More - FluentSlang)
Are you paying attention yet America? JGL 4/19/25
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